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4
Questions to Ask Before Hooking Up on
Adam4Adam
The
picture is hot ! The conversation is
flowing and he has just offered to come
over your house. You are ready to get
some serious action going. You give
him your address and in twenty minutes
exactly as he promised, Mr. Right Now
is at your door. You open it and all
hell breaks loose.
Your
fantasy man is nothing like the picture
or as he described himself. To
make matters worse, he is trying to
act as if pictures were recent but just
have " slacked off from the gym
in a few weeks " but you know that
gaining 50 pounds in that span of time
is not possible. This connection is
not going to happen at all. Pissed at
what has transpired, you vow not to
use the internet to hookup. Could you
have saved yourself the hassle? Aleviate
the games that come with online hook
ups with these questions.
How
Recent Is Your Picture ?
Online
dating is about cutting to the truth.
And that truth begins with the way people
portray themselves. Asking this question
will let you know how long it's been
since the picture was taken. Generally,
people should update their pictures
every 6 months unless they have gained
weight or changed physically. If either
one is the case then the person needs
to update ASAP !
If
the response to this question is, "
This picture is a year old but my friends
tell me that I look the same" .
Then ask for a recent picture and don't
meet the guy without getting one. Yes
this may seem like a harsh request but
when you have driven an hour to meet
someone that clearly had a deceptive
picture, you will value this advice.
Do
You Look Like Your Picture ?
This
question may seem like the same but
it clarifies the first. I have meet
men that have had recent pictures but
decided to shave their head, started
to grow twists, gained some weight recently
, etc. My goal is to find out if I am
going to get exactly what I am talking
too at the moment. If you are dealing
with a legit person, he will tell you
if there have been some changes since
the last picture was taken.
Do
You Live Alone ?
I
am not a fan of room mates. Brothers
have confided in me that they have gone
to meet men only to find out that the
" mate " was an ex-lover.
If you are hosting, then be prepared
to let people know if there are others
that share your space. Understand that
many people are freaked out to some
level about meeting anonymously. For
them to come to your house and find
it packed with people, elevates
their fear. Keeping safety in mind I
offer this advice, do not visit anyone
on a first meeting that has a room mate.
Meet in a public place or have him visit
your home.
How
Old Are You ?
Some
guys online have two ages: the Interntet
Age & the Real Age. Your job is
to find out the real one. This may not
be a major issue for some but imagine
driving two hours to meet a man that
has a picture and age that says he's
42. When you meet him, he tells you
that is is really 57. It's obvious that
he's older but you are now pissed because
you didn't get the facts.
Some
people may lie about the questions that
we suggest you ask. Always let you potential
hookups know that if anything is false
when you meet that nothing is going
to happen. The response will either
be favorable or communication will stop.
Either way you would have saved yourself
the hassle. Use these questions and
watch your connections improve.
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