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Are
Adam4Adam Parties Right for You ?
The
website that changed the way brothers
meet each other has quickly become the
Craigslist for anyone wishing to have
a private play time with a few web buddies.
But with the hundreds of postings being
added weekly the question remains: Are
the Parties Safe? , Can I Have a Great
Time ? and Are Adam4Adam Parties Right
for Me ? I will answer the questions
in the easiest manner so that at the
end of this article, you will be armed
with the information that will help
you make the best decision.
What
is Adam4Adam ?
For
those that are not familiar with the
website, Adam4Adam is a web based chat
system that allows people to send instant
messages to other members in real time.
They have hundreds of cities and thousands
of profiles. Even smaller cities such
as Raleigh can boast hundreds online
nightly. But Adam4Adam has also become
a vehicle for those looking to make
some cash hosting parties and others
that want to have the ultimate fantasy
of a group session. Within every citiy,
you can click on the parties link to
view listings of people in your area
that are posting ads with the hopes
that you will come to what they have
to offer.
Are
the Parties Safe?
By
all accounts yes. I have not known of
anyone having any unsafe action happening
as a result of a party posting. I have
hosted many events under various promotions
and can say that the majority of those
that are posting are looking for a good
time and are not trying to cause harm.
Can
I Get Into the Party ?
Now
this is where the glitter starts to
come off of the gold. Adam4Adam has
become one of the most negative websites
for Big Men, Fems , Old white men and
anyone that is not considered choice.
You will find many parties that will
specifically say that they are not looking
for Fats or Fems or Whites. Others will
be serotype for HIV + people. It is
always best to read the invitation on
the website carefully to make sure that
you meet the requirements of the party
because many promoters will turn you
away at the door if you misrepresent
yourself.
I
had this same thing happen some time
ago when I advertised for my Athletic
Promotion and a guy came to the door
that I couldn't tell if he even exercised.
Not wanting to be mean, I let him enter,
but those that were in attendance didn't
engage him. The lesson here is
to make sure that you are exactly what
the party is asking for. Have a picture
that you can send to the host and make
sure current.
Are
the Adam4Adam Parties Right for You
?
Yes.
There is a party that caters to every
type. Some are only looking for a few while
others are trying to have half of the
city in attendance and make the
rent at the same time. Be sure that
you know what the door fee is and have
exact change. As a rule of thumb, I
would suggest attending the events that
charge. You will find that they are
more professional and include amenities.
As
the old adage goes, you do get what
you are paying for. No one wants to
drive to the location from out of town
to find that the event was cancelled.
Make sure you show up if you RSVP. Trixx
are for kids and your support of the
party will guarantee that you will have
another opportunity to play when the
host throws another event.
Juan
Diego , Founder
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