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Does
Your Profile Suck ?
Many
of us would like to believe that we
are the perfect catch. We look at our
qualities and wonder how could anyone
pass us up. If you like me, you have
entered the online dating scene looking
to meet quality men. But you have quickly
found out that having access to thousands
of men do not equal thousands of opportunities
to date. It's a jungle out there and
the competition is in your face. To
get your catch you have to make sure
that your dating profile gives you a
chance to display your goods. Unfortunately,
many men have profiles that suck ! Read
the following article to see if there
are some areas that you need to improve
upon so Mr. Right can find you.
Your
Picture is Jacked Up
This
is 2009 and still many brothers don't
know how to use the camera. Mr. Kodak
would roll over in his grave. Honestly
you don't have any excuse for not having
a quality picture on your profile. Have
a buddy take a picture of you, go to
a photo booth at the mall. Get a photographer
to do a quick snapshot.
Pictures
are the first thing men look at when
they are searching for a date. If you
don't have a picture, then you are getting
skipped over. No matter how much of
a catch you claim to be. I know what
you are going to say, " I
am not out land don't want my face known.
"
Then
do the brothers a favor and just delete
your profile. Men that are serious about
finding mates need to see what you look
like. For men, visual stimulation is
the first part of attraction. At first,
we don't get a damn about your personality.
It's what we see that gets our juices
going. Like Patti Stanger says, "
The penis does the picking." .
If you don't cause a spark then
you don't get a shout.
And
on the flip side, if you are looking
to find a mate, don't post pictures
of your dick and ass. You will
never find a man that way. My mother
used to say, if it looks like a hoe,
then it must be one. When you do this,
you are sending the message that you
are just looking to fuck. Regardless
of how much you write about finding
true love. People don't listen to what
you say, they listen to what you do.
Keep
your x rated pictures limited to the
sexual hook-up sites that you frequent
and not the dating site.
You
Ain't Saying Nothing
If
you have taken the time to register
for the site and post a quality picture,
then do your future date a favor and
post some information about yourself.
It does not increase your chances of
finding dates when you don't fill out
the information sheet. In addition,
many sites like Match.com and CompatiblePartners.com
don't allow incomplete profiles. And
they are right in doing so.
When
you write your personal information,
tell men about how fun you are. Information
about where you went hiking, the last
concert you saw, or an important cause
make you stand out. But when you leave
the profile blank or put the dreaded
words " ask and I will tell ".
No one is going to ask and you will
find that you have nothing to tell.
On
a final note, your profile is about
you. Not a space to type in some poetry
that you just read or post the lyrics
to Beyonce's latest hit. [ Can we say
queen ? ] Give yourself a chance at
meeting some great people. If there
is nothing posted then a man is not
going to know if you have any common
interests. When two have things in common,
then they have a foundation to start
relating. Yes you may be fine but if
you are conservative and he loves the
ball scene then you are not going to
work out.
Looking
In the Wrong Place ?
I
will be the first person to admit that
I have done this. Going to websites
like Adam4Adam and Men4Now looking for
someone to go out with. That is a huge
mistake. Why? Because everyone that
I have met from the site wanted to fuck
! And I realized that a website that
allowed people to post nude pictures
is not the place to find someone for a
serious relationship.
We
sometimes can't resist the urge of instant
communication and chat but I am learning
that finding a date is like putting
a pot roast in the oven. It takes time
to prepare and more time to cook. But
once you are done, you have a wonderful
meal that will keep you satisfied for
a long time.
Websites
like Match.com and Compatible partners
are two of the best places to meet men
for dating.
Suck
No More
Armed
with this information, make sure you
give yourself the opportunity to find
a cool guy that would be interested
in spending time with you. We have a
lot of barriers as it is when it comes
to dating, don't make your profile another
hurdle.
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